Reassurance shouldn't be asked for.
/Is it just me or do guys have a hard time being in tune with their emotions? What’s the deal? Just say how you feel and cut all the extra shit out. It’s annoying and confusing. How do you expect a woman to completely open up to you if you are only giving less than 25% of yourself? Whatever happened in your past relationships, let that shit GO! Like completely go. You will never be able to have a great relationship moving forward if you always fault your future partner with things of the past.
And now that the rambling is done, Hi guys lol. I probably sounded a little annoyed in the beginning but I’ve just been thinking about this more and more. I’m very straight forward with how I feel about someone. I am intentional in everything I do. I never want someone feeling like I don’t care or that I’m not there for them.
Reassurance is extremely important on both ends. It lessens the negative thoughts and made up scenarios we come up with. The worst feeling is having a lack of trust and honesty in your partner. You will constantly be fishing for words and actions to make you feel secure in your relationship.
This is something I’m learning to fix within myself. I’m the Queen of Self-Sabotage. When things seem too good to be true, I can’t help but question it instead of embracing it. I deserve to be loved and respected and the right man will do just that. I won’t have to question his love.